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Victim Youth Conferencing

Victim Youth Conferencing (Victim Offender Conferencing or Victim Offender Mediation) is one of several restorative dialogue models allowing young people and the victim(s) a process to attempt to repair the harm resulting from an offense through safe, constructive dialogue. Trained facilitators meet individually with the victim and the youth to listen to the stories of each, and to determine whether a joint VYC conference is appropriate, and whether each individual voluntarily wishes to participate. If so, the VYC facilitator convenes a joint conference in which the victim and youth are guided to talk about the offense and its impacts, offer apologies, and propose a reparation plan. If agreed to, the plan is signed, and is tracked for completion and fulfillment.

What are the benefits of Victim Offender/Youth Conferencing?

  1. Victims express higher satisfaction for being involved and for having a meaningful voice in the process
  2. Offenders have higher rates of completing restitution and community service
  3. Research demonstrates lower recidivism rates for offenders who meet with their actual victim (see National research studies, following)
  4. Community volunteerism increases a sense of community investment
  5. Interagency collaboration results in stronger services throughout a county
  6. Earlier interventions with restorative dialogue lead to overall cost-savings

What is the sequence of a typical VYC / VOC restorative dialogue case?

  1. Case referred to regional mediation center from partner agency
  2. Initial letters and phone calls to both parties
  3. Preparation meeting(s) with youth and parent
  4. Preparation meeting(s) with impacted party (victim)
  5. Joint mediation/conference meeting
  6. Tracking of reparation agreement
  7. Completed case information sent to partner agency

What if the actual victim chooses to not participate?
One of VOC/VYC’s core principles is that a victim always has full discretion as to whether to meet with the youth or not. If an actual victim chooses not to participate, trained victim surrogates and community members participate in conference meetings with the juvenile. In this way, every youth can still be part of a meaningful restorative conversation with the opportunity to enter into a signed reparation agreement.

What are the best practices for Victim Youth (Offender) Conferencing?

  • Adequate screening and preparation of parties
  • Voluntary participation of all parties
  • Guidance by third-party mediators / facilitators
  • Confidentiality agreed by all participants
  • Invitation for support people and family to be present
  • The power of storytelling, listening, and being heard
  • Consensual agreements for repairing harms and setting goals

A typical dialogue process covers the following:

  1. Dialogue about the offense
  2. Discussion of all impacts
  3. Exploration and determination of needed reparation

The three main themes of restorative dialogue:

  1. Ownership: the youth takes ownership and responsibility for his or her actions
  2. Empathy: both the person harmed and the youth may experience empathy
  3. Reparation: the youth and person harmed determine how to repair the harm

This sequence is designed to help all parties shift from the past to the future, and to help youth internalize their motivation to apologize and make amends by considering how their actions affect other people. This ‘response-ability’ gives a new meaning to accountability which is no longer a negative punishment that a youth ‘takes’, but rather a positive obligation to make things right that a youth ‘gives’.

Where do referrals come from?

  1. Schools (pre-arrest / pre-charge)
  2. Law Enforcement (diversion)
  3. County Attorneys (diversion)
  4. Courts (pre-adjudication)
  5. Probation (condition of court sentence)
  6. Post-sentencing (for severe crimes)

Adapted from a Fact Sheet compiled in 2017 by the Center for Restorative Justice & Peacemaking, University of Minnesota.

Approved by / Member of:
  • ODR
  • NMA